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Life is short.Live it up. - Nikita Khrushchev

 
What you have to do is find out what you care about and try to apply yourself to it, and not live just with your memories - William Jefferson Clinton
 
 
 
 

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Links to newsreports,organisations and more

On this page you can find useful links to websites that I have compiled.The text that goes with the links will tell you what the websites are about.

 
 
Hans Leutscher is a dutch monumentmaker who is based in Rotterdam,The Netherlands.He has created the beautiful monument on Marquerite's grave.The stone comes from Finland and Hans created handmade lightblue Marguerite flowers with lifelike branches.Marguerite loved flowers !
It is a real work of art and very unique...just like Marquerite.
Hans also took care of the Memorial Plaque that only recently, in december 2004, was unveiled at Euston Station in honour of Marquerite.
 To visit Hans Leutscher's website : click on the link below. Hans' website is well worth visiting! His website has a dutch and an english version.

Hans Leutscher-monumentmaker}Homepage

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The articles below show important research that has been carried out by the english police and government. Emotional and physical abuse in and out of a relationship should be taken very seriously indeed. It is a very positive thing that serious attention is being paid to these issues by the police and the government. As the subject of emotional and physical abuse is becoming more talked about, i.e. in the press, victims will hopefully feel that their problem IS taken seriously, that they are not alone in this and that they CAN call for help.

 


 
 
Victim families 'need more help'
Families of murder and manslaughter victims need more sensitive treatment by police, courts and support groups, a survey suggests.
Victim Support questioned 41 of the 1,000 bereaved relatives it had helped over the last year.
22 February 2006
 
Full article :

BBC News: Victim families 'need more help'

 
 
'Stalking distress going unnoticed'
 
1 November 2005
 
One in 10 people experience being stalked, and a third still suffer psychological distress a year later, research reveals. Despite this, stalking is too often thought of as a rare phenomenon or its seriousness underplayed, say experts. A British Journal of Psychiatry study finds the psychological consequences are severe even among stalking victims who do not seek help.

The authors say more recognition of the desperation that can result is needed.

To read the full article, click on the link below

Break-ups 'spark domestic murders' Research by police suggests women who try to end a relationship are much more at risk of being murdered by their partner.A BBC News report.

Help pledge for victims' families: The families of murder victims are promised more help from the government, at a conference to discuss killers' sentences. A BBC News report.

The BBC reports on a 24-hour free phoneline and new refuge centres being set up for victims of domestic violence in a government initiative.

>Thanks to Andrew for submitting this article

Hi-Tech Stalking Devices Extend Abusers' Reach

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You sometimes hear criticizing stories in the press about how the police deal with families of murdervictims.I can't say we have had that experience.On the contrary, as a family we have been treated with the utmost respect and dignity! Both the British Transport Police and the Metropolitan Police have guided us through the whole process of complete shock up to the courtcase.The help from our family liaisons officers from both police forces has been proven to be invaluable!

 
 
How does it all work?Clear guides to the justice system in easy to understand language.

A guide to the criminal justice system in England and Wales}Homepage

The Crown Prosecution Service}Homepage

Dutch department of justice}english&dutch homepage

The U.K. Crime Reduction and Prevention Website lists details of organisations that offer advice ,councelling and support concerning all kinds of issues.

Crime reduction and prevention}Hompepage

 

The Network for Surviving Stalking is internationally recognised as the leading Registered Charity in the United Kingdom dedicated to supporting victims of stalking free of cost or commercial gain. Many of the Trustees are recognised leaders in their fields of expertise in the Police, Law , Psychiatry and Psychology and are members of Groups within Government Departments, the Association of Chief Police Officers, European Conferences and other organisations in dealing with the impact of stalking. It aims to provide support to victims, potential victims and others affected by stalking throughout the UK, to raise awareness of the subject and to provide information about stalking and harassment to professionals, relevant agencies and the public.

The Network for Surviving Stalking(NSS)

Hidden Hurt is an excellent U.K. based help website about domestic violence, including stalking. Rhiannon3 has a similar website, which is excellent. They share their  active forums, which is visited by women across the world and good encouraging advice is given by  caring webmasters of the site as well as the visitors who are invited to participate in communicating. Well worth visiting. Good to know such  websites exist.

Hidden Hurt

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Stalking Victims have a similar site,but this one is based in the U.S.A.. Their forum is excellent and it is a lively one. (Former)victims of stalking help out others and provide them with emotional support. Legal information is also given as well as info on crisiscentres and what to do to protect yourself. Laws seem to differ from state to state and can therefore be confusing for victims who need to know what help they can get from the authorities. This is a very professional website and you instantly will receive a warm welcome by other posters who only know too well what you are going through as a victim. It is so great that such a terrific website exists. Victims often become isolated and the internet to them must be God's gift in these dire circumstances!
 
 

stalkingvictims.com

Domestic violence and stalking, independent of one another, are continued threats to individuals and families all over the nation. Nearly 1,000,000 women and 150,000 men are directly affected by domestic violence each year.   Approximately 1.4 million people are stalked each year. Domestic violence is often a pre-cursor to stalking, doubling the damage, risks and dangers to the victim. This site is designed to provide support and valuable information for victims of both of these elusive and debilitating crimes. 

Save Your Spirit The Victims Resource is a non-profit organization founded by an abuse and stalking survivor. It is its belief that the strength, perseverance and wisdom of victims and survivors, coupled with professional specialization and community, is the key to success in prevention.  Their goal is to provide awareness and support with the valuable element of personal experience.

Save Your Spirit

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  In Memoriam 
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Sabrina Smit

Jose en Regina van Vugt

In Memoriam Page of murder victims (part of homepage 'Aandacht Doet Spreken')

 
 
If you have an 'In Memoriam' website(in english or dutch) and you would like me to place a link in this section, please write to me with the details via the Contact Me page.Thank you.

 
 
Many articles have appeared in the press about what happened on 11th January 2002.You can read this selection of newsreports by clicking the underlined links below.The reports give a good and significant impression of the courtcase at The Old Bailey in London.

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Official British Transport Police Report

BBC News: Jilted lover 'knifed girlfriend'

Telegraph.co.uk: Woman is stabbed to death at Tube station

BBC News: Man arrested over Euston stabbing

BBC News: Police name woman stabbed at Euston

This is the north east.co.uk: North-East hero grappled with tube line killer, court told

BBC News:Tears of Tube stab victim's mother

This is Local London: Knifeman shows how he stabbed ex-lover

BBC News: Tube killer jailed for murder

The Sun: Station killer is given life

BBC News: Commuter tried to stop knife killing

Telegraph.co.uk: Man who killed ex-lover in Tube station jailed for life

News Shopper: May her soul RIP

Watch/listen on Real Media : A report by BBC London after the verdict

 

A Report by the British Transport Police

BTP History Society - 13th Jan 2003

11/1/02-Marquerite van Campenhout is stabbed three times by her ex boyfriend at Euston Underground Station. A HOLMES Incident Room is set up and for the first time the BTP deal with an entire murder investigation.

 

A Time Line for Policing the Railways-BTP Report

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My dear sister Marquerite...sorely missed and in our hearts forever

Victim Support has been a great help for me and my family.I am very grateful for the support I received from our contact person,Gerard,in our hometown.At the Old Bailey we received heartening support and guidance from all who work there.A big thank you to all of them.It is amazing what a great job all volunteers do.I realise,having been confronted with such a traumatic situation,how incredibly important these people are!To visit Victim Support On-line,click the appropriate link below.

Victim Support U.K.}Homepage

Slachtofferhulp Nederland}Homepage(Victim support Holland)

 
 
Stichting Tegen Zinloos Geweld is a dutch organisation against 'meaningless/senseless violence'. It is a wellknown organisation that make a stand against violence of any kind, but especially to violence on the streets. The feeling of unsafety on the streets and in public transport and ongoing attacks of violence are ongoing issues in The Netherlands. Visit the website of this organisation by clicking the link below and see what their present activities are.You can sign up for their free newsletter by e-mail, participate as a volunteer and buy (and therefore support the foundation) promotional material at low cost. Posters can be sent to you for free at your request.
 

Stichting tegen zinloos geweld

 
 
On the dutch internet there is sub-start page about grieving and related subjects. It is called 'Rouwverwerking Pagina' and you can find all kinds of links there. This website is also mentioned under the heading 'In Memoriam volwassenen'. You can also write to the notice board to write about your feelings that visitors can respond to. A positive thing, I find. It is a very useful and comforting website for people who have just lost someone or for someone who wants to support someone who has lost a dear person. To visit the website, click on the link below.

Rouwverwerking Pagina

 
Stalking Lotgenoten is a dutch website run by 2 stalking victims. Their brave quest for acknowledgement is admirable. Their stories on the site prove they and their families have had an incredibly rough ride the last few years and it certainly hasn't helped them not being taken that seriously by the police much. However things are about to change with certain measures being taken to help victims much more, which is a step in the right direction, I reckon. Both women who run the site run a forum and guestbook, where visitors who are /were in a similar situation are participating in. It is a very active website and it is admirable they have managed to get so much done in the 1 year that the site is up and about.

Stalking Lotgenoten

 

Dutch Ministry of Justice: Informative website about Domestic Violence and the organisations that can help(english and dutch versions on website)

Website containing a quarterly magazine on domestic violence, 'Huiselijkgeweld.nl', provides victims and organisations involved in tackling domestic violence with concrete and up to date information. The website also has news articles and recent publications on domestic violence. Information on the various organisations and projects in the Netherlands concerned with combating domestic violence is also available. The website provides links to the sites of the various organisations. Municipal authorities can also obtain further information through the VNG's website: www.aanpakhuiselijkgeweld.nl 

Dutch Ministry of Justice: Network Domestic Violence

 
 
Aandacht Doet Spreken  is set up and run by families of murder victims for families of murder victims. It's aim is to raise awareness and be a haven of support. Please click the link below if you want to bring it a visit.

Aandacht Doet Spreken

 
 
 Interview in Dutch magazine Glamour
 
This January it will be the 5 year anniversary of Marquerite's death. She is greatly missed, but is with us in our hearts always...
Dutch magazine Glamour asked me if I wanted to share how I've experienced the past 5 years.
For anyone interested in reading, the interview was published in the January '07 issue.
Thank you, Marloes.

 
 
 Interview TED
 
At the end of August 2006 I was asked for an interview by TED, a student magazine .You can read the entire (dutch) article on-line , just browse to page 6/7. A victim of groupstalking also tells his (gripping) story.
 

 

TED #45 (on-line magazine)

TED #45 (PDF version)

 
 
 Interview Flair
 
With Flair (dutch magazine) I did a 4-page feature interview at their request. I am grateful they showed such interest. It was issued at the end of October 2003 and I had no idea how or if people would react. It was an emotional thing to do, to tell Marquerite's story and how I've experienced it, but it felt right. It is also a strange feeling that so much of yourself as it were is laying there in the shops for everyone to read! As it happens I got a lot of response and suppor, which truely and honestly warmed my heart. I'm glad I did it and I hope that I was able to bring a message across as well: that stalking is a serious matter and that it could happen to anyone. And hopefully I have been able to create a bit more awareness .
Thanks to all at Flair and the readers who took the trouble to write to me. You've all been amazing.
 

Flair On-line